An Enduring Love Story

Couples who get married vow to stay together. “Til death do us part”. But have you heard that some couples have defied this vow? Let me tell you this story: There was a sixty-something man who was diagnosed with brain cancer. He and his wife were apart because he works abroad while his wife took care of their family. One day, he...

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An Unforgettable Scene

I was talking to a group of patient’s relatives regarding his prognosis. It was very grim. In the group were the patient’s son, patient’s sister and the patient’s daughter holding her two year old son. The patient was dying and I was relaying that information to the family. Expectedly, the group was distraught but something...

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How did I Get Here? The Path to becoming a Doctor

Do you have any idea how long we study to become doctors?  Often, doctors are already in mid-life by the time they start practicing their profession.  Guys are already going bald while women are nearing the end of their child-bearing years.   After high school, we go to college for a four or five year course which preferably...

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I QUIT!

I continued seeing patients while I pondered on my future.  However, I felt like I was in limbo.  I didn’t know whether I should continue or stop.  I felt so uncertain of my future.  I was bordering on being depressed and this translated to becoming impatient especially when talking to patients or relatives.  I became so...

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Get me out of here, Right now!!!!

Doctors are expected to uphold the sanctity of life and to do no harm on their patients.  In my training in general medicine and internal medicine, our patients would usually come to us with a problem and we were expected to work our magic on them and eliminate the disease thereby making them well.  In the course of our studying...

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When I Grow Up

When people find out that I am an oncologist (a doctor who manages cancer patients), I always get a baffled and scared look from them.  Or sometimes I hear them say “Yikes!”.  I also get questions like “Why?” or  “Isn’t it difficult ” or “How can you deal with it?”.   You probably wouldn’t believe it, but...

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